You want some cheese with that whine?

I don’t like to advertise it, but I am a Libra…don’t make that face. I know what you’re thing besides that you automatically think flaky, irresponsible, shallow and sure except for that last one.  I’m your typical Libra. What does that have anything to do with the whiny cheese? Well I like to blame it on the fact that I am a Libra cause for some odd reason I can get people to divulge information that’s a bit um tooTMI!? O_o I get from life story, to problems in they're every day life. So for the most part it’s fine, sometimes amusing though other times I can be: Ugh Jebus! Why oh why are you telling me this? I always get the weird ones.

Now I'll never be the one to tell you straight out that you're....umm stupid in your face. Even if it’s a stranger, who’s TMIing me. That's just not who I am. Some think I’m too nice, that I don’t like to hurt the feelings of the people I love or I’m just plain weak. Still I believe it’s just that I have what some people might refer to as tact, discretion, delicacy with most situation...it’s something you really need. Oh along with the fact that I have compassion for all the little children of the world. Come on you can’t be an asshole all the time. Umm perhaps it’s it can’t ran all the time? But there are some that can help it they’re automatically give advice or they're opinion when it hasn’t been asked for. Look here missy if I want your view on the subject, I’d beat out of you…tee hee hee.

So I just feel that sometimes you just have to shut your face and listen (yeah this means you!). If someone is disclosing a grievance to you, it's because they trust you (or in my case I just got that kind of face?) and need to get it off their chest. You are their confidant (friend, or again face!) and that's okay. Cause no one is perfect or wants to be told "Wow! You know what? You're really stupid for thinking and feeling the way you do." Sure maybe they might be to you, but in those moments to them their world is kind of falling apart. Who wants to be told that when all they want is a little empathy? It's like come on don’t be a douche bag.

Still there are others who, want to be told. “Wake up stupid! What the heck are you doing or thinking?” Here is the rub they really don’t, most see themselves as faultless, unless someone is truly prepared for your opinion or advice. They’re not gonna take it or listen they’re just gonna get mad. Ugh it’s stupid cause they asked for and now their upset?! Come on you asked for it!!! Ass! Or they take a cheap shot at you? WTF!!! Then if the tables are turned, they can’t wait to tell you what’s wrong with you and how everyone else but them is right. 

So last but not least we know that: the golden rule is key, a friend in need is a friend indeed and honestly is the best policy unless the person you’re talking to is not asking for your two cent. In which any case means just keep it to yourself…-_-